The Healing Center helps toddlers through teens transform feeling “trapped, alone, and angry” to “seen, understood, and connected”. These free grief support groups are not possible without donations, and University District Kiwanis Club is proud to give $10,000 this year to support this critical work.

A dozen Kiwanis members and their guests attended The Healing Center’s “Gather for Good” event In September to support and celebrate their work connecting people of all ages who have experienced the death of a loved one, and providing community and support during their healing journey. 

The Healing Center served over 400 individuals last year

When Healing Center founder Kath McCormack’s husband died at the age of 33, they lived in the Bay Area and she attended support groups with her preschool aged-children. Kath felt that those groups saved her life. Two years later, she was unable to find similar support when the family moved to Seattle, so she collaborated with friends to form their own group and eventually founded The Healing Center as a non-profit organization in 2000.

Last year, The Healing Center served more than 400 clients in 18 different support groups designed to connect clients with others experiencing similar loss: adults and seniors who have lost a spouse or partner, young adults who have lost a parent, suicide survivors, adults caring for grieving children, and kids in grades pre-K, K-6 and 7-12. Groups are free to all attendees. 

Kim Kelly joins The Healing Center

Having lost her own mother at the age of 6, University District Kiwanis member Kim Kelly understands and appreciates the Center’s mission to support grieving families. Years ago, her work mentor at ad agency Borders Perrin suggested she join him as a volunteer at Children Grieve Too. Like Kim, he had lost his mother at a young age, and had seen the powerful impact in children’s grief groups when the adult facilitator had lost their own parent during childhood – kids would ask questions and open up more. While she had reservations about her ability to support a room of grieving kids, she was surprised that helping them process was helping her to process her own grief, and she invited her siblings to groups as guest. After 4 years, Children Grieve Too unfortunately lost their funding.

A few years later, the mother of her son’s preschool friend passed away from breast cancer.  She didn’t know the other parents well, but felt an urgent need to extend herself and find support resources for the family. An online search turned up The Healing Center, located nearby, so she stopped by and asked for materials. As she talked with Kath, the Center’s founder, she shared that she had volunteered with Children Grieve Too. Kath knew the founder of that organization and was the social worker for a family that Kim had helped while volunteering at Children Grieve Too! She invited Kim to join a facilitator training later that year. Two years later, she was invited to join the Board. Today, she has served as Board President for 5 years and is preparing to transition to a development role.

Kim says people are startled to learn that 1 in 20 kids in the U.S. will lose a parent before they turn 18. Outcomes are not good for kids with unprocessed grief – they have higher instances of substance abuse, addiction and mental health issues – that we can prevent by funding expanded grief support resources. 

Kiwanis Connection

Michael Myers, current president of University District Kiwanis Club, met Kim in 2006 when he and his two boys aged 3 and 7 came to The Healing Center for grief support services. Over the years, Kim and Michael crossed paths at local fundraisers where she met other club members and loved their energy. In 2019, Michael invited Kim to speak with the club about The Healing Center and how they might help support the work. She joined shortly afterward and now serves as a Board member and advisor to Key Club. University District Kiwanis has been a proud supporter of The Healing Center’s work in the years since.

Visit healingcenterseattle.org to learn how you can support and access the Healing Center’s programs, and share with people in your life who might benefit from a support group that reflects their experiences as they navigate grief and healing.  

“People who are grieving sometimes struggle after six months to a year when their family and friends are all so uncomfortable with their discomfort. They want them to feel better. They want them to move on. Grief just doesn’t work like that, so for people to find people that reflect their experience and understand them at a different level really helps them process their grief.”

~ Kim Kelly, Board President, The Healing Center